The trick to getting a kheer just perfectly creamy is to control the process by which the rice is cooked in the milk—using up just about all the milk’s water content to cook the rice until it still has a bit of bite, but is on the verge of falling apart such that its starches add to the creaminess of the milk and the dish itself. This is achieved by soaking rice ahead of time so it’s already softened when it comes to the stove, cooking slowly—and stirring constantly. There are many recipes that call for the use of condensed milk; know that those are shortcuts never used when kheer is a ritual offering. There are also many recipes that ignore the virtues of stirring—ignore them. It’s the slowness and attention this dish demands that makes it truly special, and a truly mindful offering. Put some music on, say a prayer, or as you please. This version won’t take you much longer than a half hour anyway.